The difference between them and us

I was talking to an anti-vaccine activist the other day, and she said that scientists, doctors, and anyone else who believed in the science of vaccines were “blindly devoted to the religion of vaccines.” I almost laughed in her face, but I was trying to be civil. After all, the woman had ventured into an institution of higher knowledge to have this debate. She was like a fish out of water as it was clear that she had no formal training in science, and she admitted to those present that she knew all she needed to know through her experience of being a mother of a child with autism.

I’ve never been tossed an easier softball for me to hit out of the park, but I just sat there and listened to what she had to say. She began her tale by telling us about her “stolen” child and how that child is now 5 and starting kindergarten. (More on how weird that sounded in a little big.) According to her recollection, her child was developing perfectly normal until he got his MMR vaccine at one year of age. It took her child two months before he started walking when most kids walk at 12 months, she said. Surely, it was the MMR vaccine that caused that delay.

She repeated other things we’ve heard from anti-vaccine activists. Her child cried for days and days until she took him to the doctor. Her child didn’t look her in the eyes. Her child watches television for hours during the day and can’t fall asleep unless she gives him an iPad to play with. Oh, and her child has allergies against everything and anything that she feeds him. She now feeds him nothing but organic chicken and vegetables. Anything else and he develops nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation… Both? Yes, she said he gets both at the same time.

But her child is 5 and in kindergarten, but is somehow “stolen”? Again, all softballs, but I didn’t bite. None of us did. It wasn’t a fight we wanted to have.

She ended her presentation to us with a set of slides about the so-called “CDC Whistleblower” and the “cover-up” of data. In her conclusion, she asked us to be “skeptical” of those who are “blindly devoted to the religion of science” and to check out the information from the National Vaccine Information Center, an anti-vaccine group that wants to feed children anti-vaccine candy this Halloween. The woman then asked for any questions, and I couldn’t resist.

“Did you read the Wakefield paper from 1998?” I asked. After a brief pause, and after seeing that I pulled out the paper, she said that she did not. “In it,” I said, “the authors conclude that there is no association between autism and enterolytic colitis.” The expression on her face changed from amusement to anger in three seconds flat. I continued, “You told us not to trust those who blindly follow science, but what about those who blindly follow Andrew Wakefield’s…”

“DOCTOR Wakefield,” she interrupted.

“Andrew Wakefield’s ‘gut feelings’,” I said. “Are gut feelings better to follow than evidence?”

“Give me that,” she said as she reached for the now-retracted Wakefield paper. She scanned the paper to the part where I had highlighted the conclusion:

“We did not prove an association between measles, mumps, and rubella vaccine and the syndrome described. Virological studies are underway that may help to resolve this issue”

The woman exploded into a barrage of accusations about me altering the paper (denial), telling me that she hated people like me who had “taken away” her child (anger), stating that if only follow-up studies to Wakefield’s were done so we all would know the truth (they were done, and also, bargaining), and then tears started rolling down her eyes (depression).

If the words in parentheses look familiar to you, it’s because they’re 4 of the 5 stages of grief. The only stage she did not display was acceptance. The woman was quiet and sitting, holding the paper between her hands, sobbing. The host thanked her for being here and we filed out of the room.

I felt like a jackass for making a woman cry. Women crying get me upset, and I honestly wanted nothing but to hug the woman and tell her that everything was going to be okay. But I think she would have completely snapped.

The difference between them and us, people who believe in anti-vaccine theories and us who don’t, is that we take the time to review the literature. We cross all the T’s and dot all the I’s. Because, in our world, being proven wrong or having someone find out that we lied or altered the data is the equivalent of social death. Just ask Wakefield, and, now, BS Hooker. They are pariahs who have either altered the data or failed to present it in an honest fashion. They may even be lying when they say that there was a “cover up” by CDC. Mark my words when I tell you that neither will ever be taken seriously by people who make policy decisions about vaccines and/or autism. And the people who follow them? Those people will never be taken seriously and be challenged on their assertions because they don’t read the papers, don’t do the homework, and don’t take the tests.

I’d like to thank the person who organized that meeting. They went to great lengths to get the woman in question to give the presentation to a group of us in northern Virginia. And that woman, if you are reading this, please know that we did not intend to deceive you into looking so foolish. You did that all on your own, and I hope you see things for what they are and not what groups like NVIC want you to believe.

Being anti-vaccine might be some sort of mental disorder

According to Wikipedia, a mental disorder can be described as “a mental or behavioral pattern or anomaly that causes either suffering or an impaired ability to function in ordinary life (disability), and which is not developmentally or socially normative. Mental disorders are generally defined by a combination of how a person feels, acts, thinks or perceives.” I’m no psychiatrist, and I make no claims to know all about the human mind and how it works. Heck, there are times when I can’t even understand me. But look at that definition and then look at this:


This woman worries so much about vaccines that she spends “hours and hours” in “researching the issues with the vaccines and worrying” about nothing. Notice how she has not seen any of the bad things that she has convinced herself (or has been convinced of by anti-vaccine celebrities), but she still wants to believe in them. She still knows through her “research” (which probably does not include any kind of coursework at an accredited institution) that vaccines are horrible. But, when she looks under the bed and doesn’t see a monster, it is “overwhelming” to her.

Read it for yourself. Because vaccinated children around her are not “lost” or “stolen” by vaccines she is overwhelmed. She is in a state of panic that, through her own admission, is irrational. If this is not a mental disorder, I don’t know what it.

Sadly, this is par for the course for many people who want to believe in the lies that they’re told about vaccines, the government, aliens, whatever. If they are true believers and they are confronted with something that is tangible, that they can see for themselves but doesn’t fit their view of the world, they feel overwhelmed. It’s like the devout person who follows a messiah that turns out to be human. Their ego can’t take the blow, so they try to rationalize it.

This is not the case with a truly rational person. A truly rational person sees the facts and accepts them for all that they’re worth. Rational people don’t freak out because the Earth revolves around the Sun. They don’t call for someone’s head because the science shows itself in everyday things more than their irrational beliefs.

I feel really sad for this woman that she has to worry her mind with these things when she could be doing much more productive things. She could leave the vaccine skepticism to people who go to school and learn about immunology, biology, microbiology, and virology and earn degrees after having their “research” tested over and over again to make sure that they’re doing it right. Instead, she chooses to be worried and anxious about her friends’ children who are NOT sick from vaccines, who DO NOT fit the description of vaccinated children that we see day after day in anti-vaccine blogs and videos. I almost want to reach out, hug her, and tell her that healthy children are an okay thing in this world, not something to feel overwhelmed about.